Saturday, June 19, 2010

Lucky Me

I am a fortunate woman. I celebrate two wonderful dads this year.

My own father, who I now refer to as "Papa," has been a source of happiness and pride for me, particularly in these ""grown-up" years. My decisions, however surprising, have always been celebrated by my dad. He wears his heart on his sleeve and I love him for that. I know when he is proud, when he is having fun, when he is sad. He is a fantastic "Papa" to our two children and there is nothing better than that.

My husband, S. Who right now is lying in a twin bed with our oldest, helping her sleep after a tough evening of tears and disappointment. I don't believe in the whole "He changes diapers!" celebration of dads. I think that is an insult to them. Of course, he changes diapers. He is a father. But I will celebrate the special things...his fascination with our daughter's strong arms as she swings from monkey bar to monkey bar, his morning oatmeal ritual with our son, his special songs/stories he tells to the kids when they are inconsolable, the way he looks at them and then me and says, "We are so lucky."

Happy Father's Day, Papa and Steve.

7 comments:

  1. Thanks. Now I am crying. At work. Sigh. You are so right about your Papa and your husb.

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  2. Kristen, thank you for your thoughts on Fathers Day. You made my day! You guys have always made it easy for me to be proud of you, joyful for you. I am truly blessed. You, Lil and Colin are also blessed to have s very special dad in your house. Steve was born for the role that he obvioulsy takes such great delight in. Its a hoot to watch him with the kids! Love, Dad

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  3. OH GREAT...so first, I read your post...and cry...then I read your dad's comment...and cry! You all are just too much for me!

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  4. Bawling. Thanks, Mr DeGrandis. You are one of the best out there.. xo Ea

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  5. We do have 2 great guys! papa and steve! We are one lucky family!

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  6. I am with Kris...now, I am weepy by post and comments too!

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  7. Well, I didn't start out trying to make everyone cry, for goodness sake, but you guys are just too easy! Let's have a laugh!
    So, a monkey and a duck walk into a bar....

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